Southern Legitimacy Statement:
Born and raised in Charleston, SC, I’m more southern than most people now residing in The South. My southerness is just a little different than most. My culinary credentials, for example, are impeccable though a bit more eclectic. Since my family (residents of the Holy City since the 1880’s) kept Kosher, our Okra Gumbo Soup had no ham and Mama’s Red Rice was cooked with kosher salami instead of bacon. We did have sweet potatoes with pecans from one of our two towering trees which met their demise during Hurricane Hugo. Also, our chittlins were made from fried chicken fat and were called “gribbeners”. But enough about food. . .
My southernism came from walking barefoot most of the year through Azalea gardens and Carolina plouff mud. I even got sent home by the school nurse for having round worm which comes from not wearing shoes in the dirt. Our backyard neighbors on one side had chickens and I helped chase them before (and after) they had their scrawny necks wrung. I also shot BB’s with the neighbor boys when I should have been in afternoon Hebrew School. As a teen, I walked the railroad tracks behind the Citadel firing range just so I could find arrowheads in the marsh. Speaking of the Citadel, we lived next door to a Col. Buise who many say is the model for “The Boo” in Pat Conroy’s Lords of Discipline. He was always drunk and had a flamingo pink house which he told Daddy was instead of pink elephants. It didn’t matter to me what color he painted his house; I was just happy to ogle all the Citadel Cadets who came over to visit and drink beer.
Down the block, Daddy built our black maid a shotgun house and I would visit there with her white bulldog barking at me and nipping at my heels. I have never like dogs since. In The South it was not unusual to have mixed blocks though the blacks and whites remained separate everywhere else. When Granny who lived with us caught me playing jump rope with black children in the neighborhood, she called me in admonishing me that good girls didn’t play with “that kind”.
Many of my poems come from my southern roots. The Camellia is one of them and brings back memories of the lovely flowers that graced my childhood. I’m so glad that when I returned to The South ten years ago, we were able to buy a house surrounded by Camellias, Azaleas, and good ole southern honey suckle.